Appreciation
“Appreciation
is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us
as well.”
Voltaire
Here is a simple
meditation that anybody can use. This would be a good place to start
for someone with no previous experience with meditation.
Sit up straight or lie on
your back. Place one hand on your belly and the other on your heart.
As you breathe, feel the
hand on your belly moving in and out with the movement of your belly.
The hand on your heart moves not at all. As you breath this way, your
diaphragm relaxes with the in-breath, so that your lungs can expand
more fully. This abdominal breathing also stimulates your body’s
relaxation response.
As you breathe, feel the
breath in your throat. Perhaps you even breathe so that you can hear
the breath passing through your throat. To start with, you might even
intentionally make a sound with the out-breath as if you were making an
“AH” sound, not with your vocal cords, but just your throat. It is as
if wind were blowing through a pipe.
Allow your out-breath to
become slower and a little deeper. Allow your in-breath to just happen
naturally.
Now imagine that your
breath is flowing out of your heart through the hand you have placed
there, and the breath is accompanied by the thought of appreciation.
Repeat the word
“Appreciation” in your mind over and over and just keep your mind
focused on the experience of the emotion of appreciation.
You might also create a
picture in your mind of someone you appreciate. This person you are
visualizing could be a real person, living or dead. Or you could
visualize a spiritual being of your choice, perhaps Jesus or Buddha, a
saint, spiritual master or guru—someone who embodies truth, wisdom, and
compassion for you. Imagine them in front of you. As you breathe out,
imagine that appreciation flows from your heart to theirs. You can
picture this as a glowing light that shines from your heart to theirs.
You may also imagine that the light from this other person’s heart
shines back to you.
As you finish, express your
gratitude in a few words of thanks and notice the state of your body,
mind and emotions. You may feel more relaxed. Your mind may feel
clearer, and you may notice that the experience of appreciation lifts
your emotions.
One way to have a happier
life is to spend more time in the states of appreciation, gratitude and
compassion.
For another approach to
appreciation see: Wildmind Buddhist Meditation
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